Do I have a low sex drive? Am I just getting too old and tired
for sex? Or maybe I have something wrong with me that is leading to a
decreased libido? Does my testosterone level get lower as I age? And
is that the ONLY reason that my sex drive may not be enough to please my
partner, or is there something else at work as well?
Any of these questions sound familiar? The truth is, for many men... sex drive diminishes with age. Ironically? For many, many women... sex drive and libido INCREASES as we get older, leading to sexual unbalances that can destroy a relationship.
Some of the reasons that men experience a decrease in sex drive?
1 - A reduction in attraction to his partner.
Yes, I'm going to say it... EVEN though women often hate to hear the words. The truth is, in private surveys, up to 50% of men claim that at least some of their lack of intimate interest and inspiration comes from some sort of reduction in how attracted they are to their significant other. This occurs MOSTLY in married men, and typically... in men over the age of 45 who have been married for 10 years or more.
2 - Sexual and Physical Insecurity
Believe it or not, many men have a reduced sex drive because they are ANXIOUS about sex. Size and body insecurity and the lack of sexual self esteem that is generated by fearful thoughts can not only lead to a diminishment in sex drive, they can also lead to erectile dysfunction and other sexual maladies common in men.
3 - Low Testosterone
Yes, some men actually find their sex drive goes down simply because they have a chemical imbalance in other areas. Testosterone is a key factor in lots of stereotypically ALPHA male behavior and tendencies, and a lower level of "test" in the body can lead to depression, listlessness and an ambivalence in interest in activities that were previously considered pleasurable or highly desirable.
Obviously SEX is #1 on this list for most of us... and a hormonal imbalance caused by injury, or age or even something as simple as being overweight, can lead to a rapid decrease in the desire to have sex.
The good news?
All of the above are completely reversible in most cases, and in many cases... the BEST way to improve your quality of life in other areas, is to improve the quality (and the quantity) of the sex you are having now. The truth is, good sex is not just a quality of life issue.
It's function of a healthier, happier and LONGER life as well. There are many studies now showing the people who have MORE sex, and even BETTER sex, live longer, are happier overall, and live lives of perpetual passion in many other areas as well!
Trust me... if your married, or have a girlfriend you love, there is no better gift you can give her this holiday season than longer, stronger and better sex.
Any of these questions sound familiar? The truth is, for many men... sex drive diminishes with age. Ironically? For many, many women... sex drive and libido INCREASES as we get older, leading to sexual unbalances that can destroy a relationship.
Some of the reasons that men experience a decrease in sex drive?
1 - A reduction in attraction to his partner.
Yes, I'm going to say it... EVEN though women often hate to hear the words. The truth is, in private surveys, up to 50% of men claim that at least some of their lack of intimate interest and inspiration comes from some sort of reduction in how attracted they are to their significant other. This occurs MOSTLY in married men, and typically... in men over the age of 45 who have been married for 10 years or more.
2 - Sexual and Physical Insecurity
Believe it or not, many men have a reduced sex drive because they are ANXIOUS about sex. Size and body insecurity and the lack of sexual self esteem that is generated by fearful thoughts can not only lead to a diminishment in sex drive, they can also lead to erectile dysfunction and other sexual maladies common in men.
3 - Low Testosterone
Yes, some men actually find their sex drive goes down simply because they have a chemical imbalance in other areas. Testosterone is a key factor in lots of stereotypically ALPHA male behavior and tendencies, and a lower level of "test" in the body can lead to depression, listlessness and an ambivalence in interest in activities that were previously considered pleasurable or highly desirable.
Obviously SEX is #1 on this list for most of us... and a hormonal imbalance caused by injury, or age or even something as simple as being overweight, can lead to a rapid decrease in the desire to have sex.
The good news?
All of the above are completely reversible in most cases, and in many cases... the BEST way to improve your quality of life in other areas, is to improve the quality (and the quantity) of the sex you are having now. The truth is, good sex is not just a quality of life issue.
It's function of a healthier, happier and LONGER life as well. There are many studies now showing the people who have MORE sex, and even BETTER sex, live longer, are happier overall, and live lives of perpetual passion in many other areas as well!
Trust me... if your married, or have a girlfriend you love, there is no better gift you can give her this holiday season than longer, stronger and better sex.
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