Breaking up may not necessarily mean that your relationship has
ended but may be inevitable in certain circumstances. However, a broken
fence can be mended, so also a broken relationship and these few tips
will be helpful.
It is very essential to know the cause of the breakup before you can figure out how to fix it. If you are not honest with yourself regarding your responsibilities in the breakup, you may find it difficult to convince your former partner to give you another chance.
Furthermore, you should allow emotions to settle before getting in touch with your ex. Calling him or her few weeks after the breakup can jeopardize the chance of reconciliation because feelings may still be fresh at that time. You should give your ex enough time to realize that the breakup was not a good idea.
The process of reconciliation should be started on a low pace. You can send text messages or call to say hello or find out how things are going. Your initial goal should be to re-establish friendship and you should not mention anything about the breakup initially. It is important to note that you cannot go back to your past relationship and your focus should be on creating a new one.
You should make yourself available to your ex as a friend and you should be ready to help him or her when needed. You should not be aggressive in your approach but if you know there is a way to help your ex in any form, you should not hesitate to offer assistance. You should not be discouraged if your offer is not accepted initially but with patience you will be able to make things work again. As you work towards being a good friend, you are showing care and concern for your ex which may reawaken the feelings you had for each other before the breakup.
In addition, your ex should be assured that things will not be the same the second time around because that is one of the most essential aspects of reconciliation. You should be able to demonstrate that you have learnt from the mistakes that caused the breakup and that you are ready to make it work again. You should not pretend because if you do so, it will not last. You should declare your intention to fix the relationship and it is important to avoid being overly emotional when expressing your feelings. You should not expect an immediate answer from your ex, as patience is required to get things back to the way they used to be.
It is very essential to know the cause of the breakup before you can figure out how to fix it. If you are not honest with yourself regarding your responsibilities in the breakup, you may find it difficult to convince your former partner to give you another chance.
Furthermore, you should allow emotions to settle before getting in touch with your ex. Calling him or her few weeks after the breakup can jeopardize the chance of reconciliation because feelings may still be fresh at that time. You should give your ex enough time to realize that the breakup was not a good idea.
The process of reconciliation should be started on a low pace. You can send text messages or call to say hello or find out how things are going. Your initial goal should be to re-establish friendship and you should not mention anything about the breakup initially. It is important to note that you cannot go back to your past relationship and your focus should be on creating a new one.
You should make yourself available to your ex as a friend and you should be ready to help him or her when needed. You should not be aggressive in your approach but if you know there is a way to help your ex in any form, you should not hesitate to offer assistance. You should not be discouraged if your offer is not accepted initially but with patience you will be able to make things work again. As you work towards being a good friend, you are showing care and concern for your ex which may reawaken the feelings you had for each other before the breakup.
In addition, your ex should be assured that things will not be the same the second time around because that is one of the most essential aspects of reconciliation. You should be able to demonstrate that you have learnt from the mistakes that caused the breakup and that you are ready to make it work again. You should not pretend because if you do so, it will not last. You should declare your intention to fix the relationship and it is important to avoid being overly emotional when expressing your feelings. You should not expect an immediate answer from your ex, as patience is required to get things back to the way they used to be.
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