In today's society, it is rather important to have friends.
Otherwise the world can be a big old lonely place. But how many of our
friends are real or fake.Whether or not you realise it, we have all
encountered fake friends. Maybe you yourself have once been a fake
friend. Now we can't sit and shake our heads and deny it. It's true,
fake friends come but they need to go.
How to spot a fake friend?
•Fake friends always (I mean always!) expect you to call, you to visit, you to make plans. While they sit around, not giving you a second thought. They don't even bother sending a text message, unless they need to use you. Fake friends expect you to be there when they need you but they won't be around when you need them. When you don't flower them with all the attention they crave, they have the capacity to ask you why you haven't called them. I believe friendships need efforts put in from both sides. If they don't think they should call you then you shouldn't call them as well.
•Fakes talk like rats behind your back. Has someone told you that your fake friend has been spreading rumours or has been saying nasty things about you? I recommend you believe whatever you heard. I believe you shouldn't share your darkest and deepest secrets with this person because I'm sure your secret will spread like fire from their mouth.
•Fakes always criticise your dreams and ambitions. A true friend will support you but a fake friend will try and talk you out of achieving your dreams. There are three reasons why they do this; Jealousy, Competition and Envy. They are always negative, always trying to bring you down and never reassuring you. Yet once you have achieved your dream, they will act like they were the one that pushed you and supported you all the way.
•Fakes disappear when something bad goes down. Once you and a fake friend go through something harsh together and suddenly you never hear from them again, don't even fret. Don't waste your thoughts on them; thank the world for not having that person around you anymore. Real friends stick together no matter what.
If you have a bad friend do your best to ignore them and walk away. You don't need friends, if fake is all they are, being lonely is so much better than being someone's joke. Real friends come in to our lives to give us company, to teach us things. A real friend will stick around no matter what you both go through; they will also help you go through those things together. A real friend will help you grow and become a better person and a real friend will always be there for you.
How to spot a fake friend?
•Fake friends always (I mean always!) expect you to call, you to visit, you to make plans. While they sit around, not giving you a second thought. They don't even bother sending a text message, unless they need to use you. Fake friends expect you to be there when they need you but they won't be around when you need them. When you don't flower them with all the attention they crave, they have the capacity to ask you why you haven't called them. I believe friendships need efforts put in from both sides. If they don't think they should call you then you shouldn't call them as well.
•Fakes talk like rats behind your back. Has someone told you that your fake friend has been spreading rumours or has been saying nasty things about you? I recommend you believe whatever you heard. I believe you shouldn't share your darkest and deepest secrets with this person because I'm sure your secret will spread like fire from their mouth.
•Fakes always criticise your dreams and ambitions. A true friend will support you but a fake friend will try and talk you out of achieving your dreams. There are three reasons why they do this; Jealousy, Competition and Envy. They are always negative, always trying to bring you down and never reassuring you. Yet once you have achieved your dream, they will act like they were the one that pushed you and supported you all the way.
•Fakes disappear when something bad goes down. Once you and a fake friend go through something harsh together and suddenly you never hear from them again, don't even fret. Don't waste your thoughts on them; thank the world for not having that person around you anymore. Real friends stick together no matter what.
If you have a bad friend do your best to ignore them and walk away. You don't need friends, if fake is all they are, being lonely is so much better than being someone's joke. Real friends come in to our lives to give us company, to teach us things. A real friend will stick around no matter what you both go through; they will also help you go through those things together. A real friend will help you grow and become a better person and a real friend will always be there for you.
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